The Broken Relationship Between Britney Spears And Mother Lynne
Let's take a look at their history timeline and ask if we should be supporting Lynne and Britney to be reunited
In recent months, a significant shift has unfolded among prominent Britney support accounts. They've been redirecting their allegiance towards Lynne Spears, her friends, and Britney's childhood companions from Kentwood, Louisiana, attempting to sway the fanbase in favor of Lynne and saying that this is what is best for Britney’s healing.
This isn't an exposé on those accounts, and I won't be singling them out, as I lack evidence to ascertain whether they're intentionally pushing an agenda or genuinely misinformed or manipulated. Moreover, I acknowledge the possibility that my own information might be flawed, but my aim here is to present a factual timeline in this article for your consideration which looks at Britney and Lynne’s relationship and to question if Lynne has any motives and for us to find anything Britney has said about their relationship in recent times.
I’ll start from the year 2000 and progress to the present day. The timeline reveals that, initially, Britney and Lynne presented a united front. However, this facade started crumbling just a few years later. While Britney initially maintained a close bond with her mother and distanced herself from her father, the dynamics shifted quickly over time.
Part 1: 2000-2007 (The Rise and Takedown of Britney Spears)
MAY: The View - A Closeness In Early Days Of Britney’s Career
From Eliana Moyano channel, Youtube - Jump to 6:26
Throughout the early 2000s Britney and Lynne projected an image of being close. During this period, Britney's violent and controlling father stayed on the sidelines for several years. On a segment of The View, they elaborated on the significance of nurturing a strong mother-daughter relationship in life. Their connection, evident in public appearances and interviews like this one, portrayed a bond that was integral to both their personal and professional lives during the earlier stages of Britney's fame.
2001
JULY: Three Days In Mexico Documentary - Britney Moved To Tears By Mother’s Gift
From: Britney Media Archives channel, Youtube - Jump to 37:06
In a documentary capturing Britney’s Mexico visit, her mother, Lynne, is notably absent, with Lynne's friend, Felicia Culotta, accompanying Britney, someone whom Britney genuinely adored. A poignant moment unfolds when Britney, visibly moved, receives a gift from Lynne. In a touching scene, Britney calls her mother, leaving a message on Lynne's answering machine to express her gratitude and love.
This specific snippet is often shared to affirm the bond between Britney and Lynne in an effort to show what could be rekindled today. However, over the span of twenty plus years, substantial abuse has occurred to Britney via her own mother, rendering it simplistic to rely on such moments as a definitive validation of their potential future connection.
2004
The Vault - Britney Appears Guarded When Mother Is Brought Up
From: Glitter Britney channel, Youtube - Jump to: 1:25
This is quite hard to watch, actually. Britney, appearing guarded of the interviewer's line of questioning about her mother, is asked to share insights into what Lynne is like as a source of support. In response, Britney offers a brief reply, stating, "She's amazing. She's awesome," accompanied by an awkward thumbs-up gesture. However, her demeanor seems more pained than emotionally uplifted, in stark contrast to her earlier, happier moments captured in the documentary "Three Days in Mexico."
While it's speculative, it appears that Britney may have been concealing a profound sense of distress behind the scenes, involving her mother and family, during this interview. Her father, Jamie Spears, was already worming his way back into the Spears family so it’s very likely he was causing a lot of hassle for Britney. And here it seems she attempted to shield herself by providing a positive response but her true emotions betrayed her.
As the interviewer attempts to empathize with Britney, describing her mother as a "good one," Britney appears defeated, responding with a simple "Yep," hinting at the possibility that issues were already arising between her and her mother at this point.
It's crucial to note that this interview took place in 2004, a year when Britney had a brief marriage to childhood friend from Kentwood, Jason Alexander, annulled just 55 hours later. Speculation suggests she might have taken this step as a means to escape the control of her parents, adding another layer to the complex dynamics within her family at this time.
Sidenote: In this October 2018 Instagram post below from Britney’s sister, Jamie Lynne, we have confirmation that Lou Taylor was already influencing her way into the Spears’ family in 2004-2005:
2007
MARCH: Britney Placed In Rehab After Mother Allegedly Drugged Her
Britney's cousin, Alli Sims, alleged years later, that Lynne spiked her daughter's drink in order to drive her, passed out, to the rehab place, Promises, to get treatment.
Britney and Alli kept demanding a report of Britney’s drug and alcohol test to prove she hadn't taken anything. When she finally got a report it proved, as expected, she was clean.
JUNE: Britney Allegedly Serves Mother With Restraining Order
From: X17 Online Video channel, Youtube
Fast forward three years to June 28, 2007, and Britney finds herself entangled in a divorce with husband, Kevin Federline. Rumors circulate that Britney, in the midst of this personal turmoil, drove to the Zoey 101 set where her sister Jamie Lynn was working to hand their mother a restraining order, demanding distance from both her and her children. Lynne Spears vehemently denied these allegations.
Notably, Britney appears to have moved on here from the profound sadness evident in her 2004 video when she was on The Vault and is seemingly more composed. By this point, she has two children who are her focal point, suggesting a shift in her priorities. Could it be that becoming a mother herself led her to question her own mother's allegiance, especially considering Lynne's supportive stance towards Britney's father, who, by all accounts, was deeply abusive to his children?
A snippet below from X17Online, reported on the restraining order situation in 2007, and sheds light on the fractured relationship between Britney and her mother. Britney accuses Lynne of working against her and siding with her ex-husband, Kevin, during the custody battle.
While we may not have a detailed understanding of the dynamics between Britney and Lynne during this tumultuous period, it's evident that their relationship was broken. Britney's realization that Lynne may have been playing both sides raises questions about the authenticity of familial support today. Despite the smoke and mirrors surrounding Britney, her intelligence and strong intuition about her situation at this time were apparent.
In 2007, it seemed that Britney was yearning to liberate herself from the control exerted not only by her parents but also from the grip of the entertainment industry and her management. But this was the year that her family, allegedly wielding the media as a tool, played a significant role in steering her life in a direction aligned with their desires, rather than Britney's own well-being. Also, be aware that at this time, Lou Taylor was exerting her manipulating power over the Spears family.
It appears that in 2007 the groundwork for placing Britney under a conservatorship was already in motion as the behaviors exhibited by those surrounding her indicated a concerted effort to depict her as unstable and unfit to raise her children, thus setting the stage for the imminent and illegal conservatorship.
JULY: Britney Mocks Lynne’s Sanctimonious Tone
From: X17 Video Online channel, Youtube
Just four days later, on July 1, 2007, following reports of Britney serving her mother with a restraining order, a paparazzi inquires, "Do you think everything is going to be okay with her (Lynne)?" Britney responds with evident sarcasm, stating, "I'm praying for her right now, and I hope she gets all the help she needs." This retort reflects Britney's frustration with her spineless mother, who had uttered similar sentiments about Britney earlier in the year.
JULY: Lou Taylor Allegedly Stalked Britney
In this email from July 10, 2007, Britney emails her lawyer at the time, Gary Stiffelman, to keep Lou Taylor away from her. Interestingly, Britney states she doesn't know her, yet we know via Jamie Lynne’s post earlier that Lou Taylor had enmeshed herself into the Spears family as early as 2004. So Britney is unaware as to how Lou got her address to harass her which is obviously from her family.
The email below also shows that even though things are fractured between Britney and Lynne, Britney is still worried about Lou getting near her mother, and is completely unaware that Lynne already knows and likes Lou.
Part 2: 2008-2021 (The Illegal Conservatorship)
JANUARY: Lynne Instrumental In Putting Britney Into Conservatorship
Six months later in January 2008, Britney's freedom comes to an abrupt halt as she is placed under a temporary conservatorship. Lou Taylor, Jamie Spears, and Jamie's lawyer, Geraldine Wyle, navigate the corrupted halls of the LA court system to identify a judge who could facilitate granting Jamie absolute power. This authority is then used to administer psychotropic drugs to Britney, ostensibly under the guise of "treatment."
Evidence: Below is the email that exposes Geraldine Wyle informing Lou Taylor about securing the desired corrupt judge. This crucial move sets the stage for placing Britney under an extensively restrictive conservatorship, granting them absolute power over her. The implication being that this level of control would facilitate potential exploitation, raising concerns about the ease of subjecting Britney to actions that amount to trafficking. Allegedly.
From: NYT journalist, Liz Day’s Twitter account on July 5, 2022
The news article below is from Thursday, January 31, 2008, and reports that discussions commenced on the preceding Monday to involuntarily commit Britney. Notably, this unfolded four days after the infamous night when Britney was restrained on a gurney amidst a spectacle involving helicopters and two dozen police officers who referred to her as ‘The Package,’ circled her in what now looks like the biggest setup ever of a public figure.
From the Los Angeles Times
In this secondary email below, we have Lou Taylor and Geraldine Wyle exchanging emails on February 2, 2008, discussing the pivotal events from 'Monday.' These communications strongly suggest the active involvement of Lynne and Jamie in conversations aimed at orchestrating Britney's confinement, highlighting Lynne's crucial role in the success of their plans.
Importantly, these emails also reveal Lou Taylor's participation in setting up the conservatorship, contradicting her subsequent denial of any involvement.
It's essential to emphasize that these emails were intended to remain confidential and were never meant to see the light of day. The fact that they have surfaced implicates not only Lynne in helping to destroy her daughter, but also Lou Taylor and Geraldine Wyle (and of course, Jamie Spears) in the orchestration of the conservatorship. Despite any denials from Lynne, this revelation exposes her complicity as a crucial factor in maneuvering and plotting against her own daughter.
From: NYT journalist, Liz Day’s Twitter account on July 5, 2022
Britney confirmed the timeline of January 2008 in her August 2022 audio clips shared on her Instagram. In these clips, she attributes the orchestration of the conservatorship to Lou (though not named), her father, and notably, her mother, whom she accuses of being the driving force behind putting the conservatorship into motion. Britney emphasises these actions as outright abuse, indicating a profound awareness of her mother's significant role in her enslavement.
JANUARY: Lynne’s Allegations That Were Conveniently Used to Override A Law Which Could Have Prevented the Conservatorship
In the conservatorship filings, Lynne made a number of allegations against alleged Britney handler, Sam Lutfi. These allegations were never investigated but they were used to override the 5-day notice required by law which would have given Britney the time to contest her conservatorship from the start. This was because Jamie and Lynne were terrified Britney would mention it all to Lutfi and tell him what they were planning to do. Here is the list of Lynne's allegations against Sam Lutfi:
And here is the evidence that Jamie was afraid of Britney talking to Lutfi which could have jeopardised his plans to conserve his daughter. So much for this conservatorship being the reason to help his daughter.
Also, Jackie Butcher, Lynne’s now friend back in 2008, exposed Lynne’s motives in 2021 about creating the guardianship. Jackie accompanied Lynne to the courtroom as Britney was placed into a conservatorship and says today it is now something which haunts her, as these excerpts from the New Yorker show:
It’s highly ammusing that Judge Reva Goetz is defending her honour here as if her word means something. We now know Jamie Spears’ then lawyer in 2008, Geraldine Wyle, indirectly implicates how crooked Reva is when she emailed Lou Taylor saying the judge they needed that could give Jamie ultimate powers over Britney might not be on the bench when they needed them, so they had to carefully navigate the court system to get such a judge, though she isn’t named. But they ended up with Reva Goetz. So that’s who they hung out for. (Go to the 2008 timeline to see the email).
And below is Jackie exposing how Lynne lied about the conservatorship being temporary and a plan for Britney to hate Jamie later on, only for Lynne to show positivity for the management of the conservatorship over her daughter.
SEPTEMBER: Lynne Spears Releases Her Book in Aftermath of Britney’s Conservatorship
It's curious while Lynne, Lou Taylor, Geraldine Wyle and Jamie were in cahoots to enslave Britney, Lynne announced in late 2007 her autobiography would be coming the following year. It was published on September 18, 2008. Was this her payment for helping Lou bag Britney to be trafficked?
In this screenshot below taken from Lynne’s book, Through The Storm, Lynne refers to Britney’s impending conservatorship as, ‘an impossible dream.’ A perversely odd description, if you ask me. It also shows how everything was about controlling their daughter in the second paragraph:
‘Something drastic would have to happen for Sam (Lutfi) to lose control and for Jamie to gain control of his daughter, who was, after all, an adult woman; I shuddered to think of what depths of desperation we would have to plumb to regain charge of our child.’
And what depths they plumbed indeed.
The acknowledgement to Lou Taylor and believing God helped their particular brand of evil to be vindictive human beings who planned, via a corrupt judge, to help traffick her daughter, is really something to witness.
2012
NOVEMBER: Britney’s Parents Beam Outside Court After Sam Lutfi Dismissal
From: Entertainment Tonight channel, Youtube
Here’s Lynne Spears having a virtual orgasm on national television after winning a court case against alleged handler, Sam Lutfi. It’s nearly five years into her term as the First Lady of the United States of Britney Spears and she beams proudly up to her maggot-brained, low IQ, alcoholic husband, Jamie Spears, who is 60 years old at this point and who has never been able to hold down a successful job in his life other than to traffic and abuse his own daughter, of which Lynne is proudly complicit in.
In my opinion, Lou Taylor and Geraldine Wyle’s objective was to manipulate and divert substantial amounts of Britney’s money away from Jamie, who, despite his apparent lack of acumen, was placed in the central role of overseeing the trafficking of his daughter, which has amounted to the staggering theft of over a billion dollars. All of this transpired under the watchful eye of the devoted southern wife, who has witnessed some of the most distressing and traumatic years of her daughter's conservatorship.
2019
JAN-APRIL: Britney At Bridges Facility Allegedly Being Tortured
Through another audio clip from August 2022, we learned that during Britney's time that she was allegedly being tortured with all kinds of drugs at the Bridges facility, she was on the phone pleading with her family to bring her back home.
This revelation unveils Lynne's sociopathic maternal disposition. Britney's testimony further disclosed that she had implored her father, while he, Lynne, and Britney’s siblings were enjoying themselves at her property in Destin, Florida, despite her enduring suffering and what appears to be a deliberate process to punish her, or suspiciously, plans to remove her permanently, all for the supposed benefit of the family.
Britney tells us here that while she was in the facility her mother and sister couldn’t have cared less about her. Their behaviour screams of a narcissistic family dynamic when Britney says she thought they secretly enjoyed her being the car wreck. Imagine someone as powerful and talented as Britney being reduced to this level of humiliation and restriction and that is what empowers her mother and sister to feel superior over her. It’s classic narcissistic abuse patterns.
Britney Contacts Family and Friends Asking For Help
Here’s a screenshot the Instagram account posted of Britney messaging her mother when she was at the facility concerned about the medication her doctor was giving her and was convinced it was going to kill her. The second screenshot is Britney’s DM to her freiend, Jansen.
And here is Jansen’s Instagram story acknowledging this DM below. But to this day, Jansen still hasn’t publicly defended Britney against her media smears, she’s cozied up to smear journalist Jessica Reed Kraus even after she had written a hit piece on Britney, and Jansen hasn’t denounced Jamie or the rest of the Spears family, and remains close with Lynne. Surely, in the eyes of Britney, her friend is siding with the abusers?
This bit from The Times article in late September 2021 is interesting. It looks like after realising that her mother nor her friends were willing to help her, either because they wouldn’t or because couldn’t get their messages across, Britney tried to get an outside lawyer to help.
APRIL: Whistleblower Reveals Britney is Held Against Her Will In A Facility
At last, a pivotal moment in the Britney narrative on April 16, 2019, revealed that Britney was being detained at the facility against her wishes. A whistleblower, formerly part of Sam Ingham's legal team, left a message that was aired on a podcast called Toxic.
From YouTube channel: BSDRIA22
APRIL: Lynne Seen Day After Bombshell Liking Free Britney Posts And Making Comments
The day after the whistleblower reveals the shocking truth about Britney Spears essentially being medically kidnapped and drugged, Lynne suddenly appears to mobilize. So, when Britney was desperately pleading to he rmother to save her life and get her out of the facility, Lynne was unbothered. But now, with everything out in the open, she is seemingly proactive. Why? In my opinion, it's because the world was unaware of Britney's distress, allowing Lynne to perpetrate her abuse behind closed doors without consequence. There's much to be said about someone's behavior when the world isn't watching.
However, the moment a whistleblower exposed that Britney was being held against her will, thrusting her situation into the spotlight, Lynne abruptly transforms into a mother determined to fight for her child. To me, this mirrors the typical conduct of a malignant narcissist exploiting the media spotlight to portray themselves in a positive light. Sam Asghari also did the same.
When the world remained unaware of Britney’s real situation, both Lynne and Sam seemed uncaring to the possibility of harm befalling Britney. However, as soon as Lynne found herself on the brink of potential exposure for her complicit abuse against her own daughter, she strategically shifted the narrative to present herself as the better, more caring parent compared to Jamie.
MAY: Lynne Accompanies Britney To Court
According to Radar Online, we are informed that Lynne held Britney’s hand as they entered the court together. However, there is no actual footage to substantiate this claim, leaving us reliant on being told this as a 'fact.' (If anybody has these pictures, please send to me and I will adjust this section)
It seems as if this narrative is being presented to the world to portray a positive relationship between them, with Lynne portrayed as supportive. Yet, examining the available photos reveals Britney seemingly walking ahead of her mother. This scenario gives the impression that the media is assisting Lynne in projecting a favorable image.
Interestingly, while the media is pro Lynne, they are focused on Britney not wearing shoes which creates a narrative that seems designed to emphasize, 'Look how batshit she is.' During this hearing, her security, led by Edan Yemini, the individual allegedly responsible for placing surveillance equipment in Britney’s bedroom on behalf of Jamie Spears, accompanied her into the court.
Considering this context, it raises the question of whether he might have compelled her to remove her shoes before leaving the court building. This scenario could have been orchestrated to provide the paparazzi with a shot of Britney barefoot, fueling a narrative that many media outlets would then adopt in their headlines, such as 'Britney Leaves Court Barefoot.' Because that was the most important piece of information, wasn’t it, considering this hearing came just weeks after the whistleblower dropped the bombshell that Britney was being held against her will in a facility?
MAY: Lynne Supposedly Backs Britney’s Accusation That Dad Forced Her into Facility
The headline from TMZ below reports on the hearing from May 2019 showing Lynne supporitng Britney’s statement that her dad forced her into the facility. But we now know via Britney’s audio clips from August 2022 that Lynne couldn't be bothered to help her daughter out of the facility even after she told her mother she believed the doctors might be planning to kill her.
And we now know Britney feels her parents supported the abuse towards her. So all this reporting we are seeing is nothing more than to make Lynne look like the better parent. Britney knows exactly what her mother is all about behind closed doors; one who left her at the facility to be abused and potentially killed, while Britney is sobbing on the phone begging her mother to take her home. It’s clear from Britney’s words that Lynne is just as bad as Jamie in the violence she has shown towards her daughter.
Lynne Spears’ behaviour following the whistleblower message is that, on the surface, she showed herself doing everything for Britney. But it was, in fact, nothing at all. And ultimately, she never petitioned to have her daughter’s abusive conservatorship terminated, which would have shown her true loyalty towards Britney.
Had there been any evidence of Lynne fighting for Britney in the months leading up to the paralegal’s damning information which blew the Free Britney movement open, it may have shown her to actually be genuinely worried. Instead, we see her being pro-active only after April 16, but we now know via Britney’s own audio statements, that her mother didn’t care one bit to help her out of a frightening situation and seemed unbothered about her daughter’s concerns that there might be plans to end her life.
Part 3: 2021- Present Day (More Invisible Than Before)
JUNE: Britney Exposes As Many People As She Could For Conservatorship Abuse
It’s more than two years later since the revelation that Britney was held captive in a mental facility when her historic testimony happened on June 23, 2021. Britney exposed more so how her father, family and management abused her and how the Los Angeles lawyers and judges sat back and allowed it all to take place. Yet shortly after the testimony, and predictably, the first of many smear campaigns began to fire up, and not once have any member of Britney’s family or friends stepped forward to publicly defend her.
2022
“I Thought They Were Trying To Fucking Kill Me!”
This audio clip below holds significant importance as Britney, after having pleaded for her life to her mother back in the Spring of 2019, reveals that she finally turned her back on her family. Here she is saying she finally drew boundaries between her and her parents and was done with them for good.
Given these candid audio revelations, doesn’t it raise the possibility that her sentiments about turning her back on her family were already forming even after her departure from the facility? These audio clips suggest that Britney might not have even been on speaking terms with Lynne even after leaving the facility, challenging the authenticity of the media narrative in Radar Online in April 2019 that they were holding hands.
The Childhood Friends
While we're familiar with Britney calling out her family in her testimony in June 2021 and the August 2022 audio files, these recordings offer further insights into her sentiments towards other conservatorship players and enablers who had the capacity to help but chose not to.
Britney Calls Out Hometown Girlfriends
In this clip below, Britney directly confronts her friends from Louisiana, highlighting their enjoyment of luxuries denied to her. She exposes their demeaning behavior towards her as they benefitted at her Las Vegas shows.
Britney's Pain At Family And Friends Complicit In Her Abuse
Britney says her mother, brother and all her friends could see she was suffering and that she needed their help but not one of them reached out to lend a hand to help her. Yes, we know Jamie, would have had people removed who tried to help Britney, and I can see how they would fall in line because of that.
But please, explain to me why they also treated Britney like she was worthless, all while they enjoyed the luxuries at her shows? You have to be really awful people to witness somebody’s suffering, drink their champagne, and yet look through them coldly like they are worthless. Britney must have told them about her coercive situation, or they had witnessed her abuse on multiple occasions, because she tells us, “they knew what I was going through,” only for them to compound her mistreatment and make her feel even more alone.
Britney is stating they have all been complicit in her expoitation. Not even a look of concern or a brief whisper of acknowledgement in her ear from them when they gave her a hug? Instead, it seems they held nothing but utter disdain towards her. Just like her family do. Which also makes sense why most of them still remain friendly and support the Spears family to this day. Their complicit behaviour is what helped the abusers abuse her. They are guilty of abusing her.
Shouldn't we be hearing stories from Britney today like, “This friend secretly tried to help me/support me, and my father never knew anything about it/or he found out and booted them out. And I just knew from so-and-so’s look or tight hug that they acknowledged what I was going through. I can only thank them today because I felt extremely alone. It gave me hope that one of my friends really had my back and I wasn't worthless like yesterdays trash.”
No. Instead, these friends are quaffing top end champagne that Britney’s money paid for and were looking her up and down like she was the poverty freak in the room who wasn't fit enough to breathe the same oxygen as them.
2023
OCTOBER: The Book The Woman in Me is published in late October and if we are to believe these are Britney’s words, she’s done with the industry and her family.
DECEMBER: Britney Suddenly Makes Up With Mother And Family
The narrative today is Britney has made up with her mother, brother and sister. Because everybody else tells us so. The picture of Britney curled up with Lynne as well as the paparazzi pictures of her coming out of Cade’s home with her family show this to be true, and the media and the Instagram backs it up.
Or does it?
The use of staged photos and paparazzi images to portray Britney with her family as if everything is harmonious is far from new. Even back in 2007, there were pictures taken by Sam Lutfi, showcasing Britney and Lynne in a seemingly affectionate light, which is one of the worst years of Britney’s life as it was the year her family and Lou Taylor plotted to enslave her. These images served the purpose of projecting the narrative that, "Britney was better with her family," a narrative that conveniently ran alongside media smears suggesting that without family, Britney was spiraling out of control. It echoes the familiar themes we encounter today, underscoring the fact that predators and abusers often adhere to unchanging patterns, as they always expose themselves through repetitive narratives. And it also makes you question if they are behind many of her smears today.
If we strip away the current pictures as a manipulated element of Britney's controlled narrative, what remains? We're left with the Instagram, the media narratives and family adding to it all. The sudden shift in the media as these smear platforms turned sympathetic towards the family reunion, raises a significant red flag for me.
As for the Instagram account, I continue to wrestle with it, seeing substantial evidence of manipulation while sometimes glimpsing Britney's authentic voice. Some posts appear to be orchestrated to sabotage her, or often promote Lou Taylor’s clients.
While other posts, possibly from Britney herself, criticize her team and cast a negative light on her lawyer and associates. The fact that these revealing posts are often deleted suggests an internal struggle for control over the Instagram, potentially indicating Britney's limited influence. Maybe. Until Britney directly addresses the Instagram situation, obtaining a clear answer about it remains elusive.
So, amidst the apparent manipulation, what does Britney truly think about the family reunion in her own verbal words? Well, publicly, and unsurprisingly, nothing. For quite some time, Britney has been akin to a ghost in her own narrative—silent, discussed by others, and seemingly more invisible than ever before.
And can we ever forget what Britney said about her family running to the media to yack away about her when she wasn’t allowed? They are still doing it today and talking through abusive platforms like TMZ. So, how on earth would that kind of obnoxious behaviour, which enrages Britney, win her over?
Given this detailed context and timeline, why then, do some accounts advocate for the reunion of Britney with her mother and childhood friends, asserting that it's crucial for her healing as she has nobody else?
Should We Support Lynne Spears and Britney’s Childhood Friends?
At times, I ponder whether the sheer volume of information inundating us about Britney's abusive circumstances, coupled with a society desensitized to the violent, misogynistic smears against her, leads most people to either ignore the negative predicament of her situation. Even now, in certain situations where she faces relentless bullying and militantly orchestrated smear campaigns without a single soul defending her other than the ‘conspiracy theorists’ known as BAnon, her regular dehumanisation is becoming ‘normal.’
Regrettably, many may not perceive supporting those that Britney called out as her abusers, as well as supporting the abusers enablers, as offensive. But it is profoundly offensive. I’ll explain why. Consider a couple of analogous scenarios and ask yourself whose side would you come down on:
An 18 year old woman has been sexually abused by her father, his friends and their church for over a decade, and her mother knew all about it. In fact, she was the one who helped make the whole thing a reality. That young woman has been screaming for her mother’s help for years before she finally realised her mother’s role in her abuse, and decides to turn her back on her. But a number of her childhood friends say she is best off staying with her mother. Would you take the mother and the friend’s side or the victim’s?
A 35 year old woman has managed to escape her domestically violent marriage of ten years from a man who often put her in hospital and beat and demeaned their children too. She doesn’t want them raised in such a frightening environment and has, thankfully, managed to escape. But her mother has sided with her husband, and her friends, whom she has asked for assistance, instead of rallying around the woman to help her, have sided with her mother and husband because they believe ‘it’s best the children have both parents in their lives,’ and are trying to talk the woman back into giving her marriage another go if her husband, ‘promises to get help.’ Even if this decision might ultimately end up with the woman or her children dead, god forbid. Would you support the woman and her children, or her mother and those friends in this situation?
Can you not see how taking the side of the abuser or the abuse enablers is actually gaslighting the victim and could potentially put the victim at risk? If a victim states very clearly, “I have been abused. This happened to me. She/He/They abused me. I want them all in prison and I need closure, and by stating this, I am asking to be supported and heard in this,” then why in God’s name would anybody support the very people that the victim said abused them?
Also, by supporting the abuser and their enablers, you are actually making a statement that clearly says, ‘The victim doesn’t really know what they are talking about. Their version of events cannot be relied on. We need to listen to those who are accused because they know what the victim wants better than the victim herself.’ This is profoundly damaging to the one who found the strength to speak out. It’s gaslighting and it IS abusive.
Britney has made it very clear verbally that she felt worthless, humiliated, demoralised, abused, scared, and trapped by her family, her management, her doctors, the media, and her friends. Basically, everybody you can imagine. The only person to support in all of this and give her the space to be heard is Britney herself. NOBODY ELSE MATTERS. The rest can clear their names in court. If the legalities are even working in Britney’s favour, that is.
If Britney told us herself where she stands in her relationships to others, why are we ignoring her? It appears clear to me that she has been ignored since the day she came into the world by those who should have cared and supported her. Yet for a brief few years, she managed to pull herself out of a car crash family and carved a space in the world that was uniquely her own, and those who had been abusing her behind the scenes and were riddled with pathological jealousy at her elevation in society, took that all away from her and claimed it for themselves.
Only Britney’s side matters because her version of events is the ONLY ONE that is so threatening that it’s being actively smeared out of existence, be it by the media, the Instagram, her team, or from the family and friends burrowing into many accounts DM’s to influence their followers. When all is said and done, it is yet another tactic to erase her truth.
Are Lynne And Friends Really Decent People Looking Out For Britney?
We are being told by certain accounts that Britney really needs to be with her mother and family to heal from her trauma. Should we support this considering Britney herself has told us that they were all complicit in her abuse? I don’t think so.
We’re told that Lynne and Britney’s friends cannot go public with their real feelings because they are scared of the repercussions from Team Con, and that really, deep down, they are all decent people only looking out for Britney. So, let’s break this down to see if there appears to be any truth in this. Because it’s clear Britney’s words haven’t been enough to convince people.
EXCUSE 1: Lynne Is Fearful Of Jamie
We hear that Lynne has always been scared of Jamie’s anger and there is a history of him being violent towards her. I don’t doubt for a second that a generationally damaged, drunken misogynist, and obnoxiously religious man like Jamie Spears spoke with fists and threatening, damaging words. We know because Britney has revealed herself how terrified she was of him growing up and of his behaviour towards her during the conservatorship. Yet Lynne still stood by him.
In Lynne’s autobiography, Through The Storm, it shows Lynne Spears wasn’t shy in putting Jamie in his place at times.
This kind of toxic co-dependant relationship must have been unbearable for all the Spears children to have lived through, not just Britney. They were all innocent children at one point. Children really shouldn’t be witness to such an ugly and damaging environment. Fortunately, there are stories that Britney found close support in the company of her beloved aunt, Sandra Bridges, who was Lynne’s sister, as Britney would often duck out of the usual warzone exploding in the Spears household to stay at her aunt’s home.
There are multiple stories like this of Lynne and Jamie’s relationship that show Lynne was not the terrified wife of a violent man who would bark, ‘jump!’ and she would cower in fear of his domestic violence. They appear to have been each other’s toxic equal that attracted each to the other and who gave as good as they got.
Many women are trapped in awful violent circumstances trying to survive while looking for an exit to free themselves from their partner’s abuse. Yet Lynne still stood by Jamie as he went on to abuse Britney in such graphic, soul-destroying ways. That shows there is some kind of perverse primal enjoyment she gets being in his company as well as from witnessing what was done to her own flesh and blood. Because no legitimately caring mother would stand by such a partner who did what he has done to Britney.
That eye opening line from the extract shown, ‘We southern girls know our way around a weapon,’ is Lynne thinking she sounds like a cute and fiesty Southern Belle. It’s infuriating. She sure didn’t know her way around a firearm when her least favourite but most talented child was abused and hijacked by her most favourite man though.
There is also the decades old rumours about Jamie Spears and his perversely, incestuous fixation over Britney. The well-known stories on music videos of him wanting to be around her and watch her make out with male co-stars as the story called for. The alarming story of him wanting to be on the set of the Womanizer video where she is in the shower scene just so he could leer over her naked body. His obsession of Britney goes way beyond what is acceptable for any decent, loving, supportive father. And still, she stood by Jamie.
EXCUSE 2: People Around Britney Are Scared To Speak Out
I’ve heard this on and off over the past three years and I’m really not buying it today to explain why the family and friends are silent in their defence of Britney. Not since Jamie got booted from his throne of power anyway.
I do believe that Lou Taylor and her ilk and powerful entities such as Sony and CAA very much wield huge influence over the entertainment sphere to make sure people keep their mouths shut. To an extent. The fact TMZ are involved in one of the most horrifically illegal and criminal defamations against a public person that I’ve ever seen but never question Lou or Larry and openly support the Spears family, says to me that money is still being handed over to keep Britney’s narrative locked down in a negative state to discredit her truth. But let’s look at this.
Why are the family and friends trying to influence the fanbase to focus on her and Tri Star? This would would be like waving a huge red flag to Lou that the family and friends are talking to the advocates, no? And why have some documentary makers helped expose some of Lou’s insidious behaviours and still remain walking today?
Also, why has Jamie’s own sister expressed her negative views about her brother and lived to tell the tale? People are scared Jamie might still be threatening to kill people who speak out against him, yet there’s his sister talking to the press. Again, Jamie has been subject to documentary makers exposing his behaviour and those makers are still here.
So, lets say they can’t denounce Britney’s alleged abusers because somebody is threatening them.
Fine.
Then why haven’t the Spears family come out and denounced themselves and their awful behaviour towards their own flesh and blood? There is absolutely zero remorse in their sadistic behaviour towards their own daughter and sister. How can people say Britney needs her family when they can’t even hold themselves accountable for their own behaviour towards her? She accused them of abusing her and turning their backs on her when she was screaming out for their help. All I hear is, ‘Poor Lynne. Poor Jansen. Poor Jamie Lynne. Leave Lynne’s friends alone!’ What about ‘Poor Britney?’ You know, the real victim here?
EXCUSE 3: Lynne’s Friends Are Only Trying To Help Her And Britney
It starts to make a bit more sense why the problematic Jessica Reed Kraus (Known as House Inhabit) ventured to Kentwood, Louisiana, to throw her seedy, conniving support behind Lynne and her friends, and help shape the public Britney narrative. Notably, Jessica expressed a strong pro-Jamie Spears stance, which is unsurprising because she has always shown awe for men who abuse women. It’s the one theme I have noticed about her in the last couple of years. Misogynists and pedophile enablers are her bag that make her go weak at the knees. Even in her smear article, ‘Saving Britney,’ published just months before the Louisiana meet-up in mid-2022, Jessica had been fawning over Lynne, her friends and Britney’s friends, and classed them as good southern types.
In a situation where a protective mother and friends would typically tear someone apart for what they said about their daughter and friend, these Kentwood folk seemed to be doing the opposite—fawning over an abusive smear merchant ‘journalist.’ It appeared to be yet another opportunistic move to advance their narrative about Britney Spears. For them to speak about her and for her. Just like everybody else does. Deep down, it's hard to believe that any of them genuinely harbor any legitimate affection for Britney at all.
And some screenshots below of Lynne Spears’ friend, brand stan Baihly, shows the clear way she looks down on Britney like she were a vapid, flea-ridden, disease-infested dog who needs to be chained to an outdoor kennel.
The fact Baihly and Lynne’s other friend, another Britney stan, Tatum, were replying to many people’s comments after the family reunion narrative dropped to defend Lynne and gaslight concerned fans, doesn’t fill me with hope that any of this is done from a place of genuine concern, but to hijack and abuse a woman who cannot shed the insidious family around her from their pervading cancerous control they have over her.
And to be quite blunt, all Baihly and Tatum are doing, apart from being inveterate arse lickers in their desperate sycophantic grasp to sniff the rareified air of Lynne’s celebrity daughter, whom they see as an icon, an unreal, inanimate thing, and not a human being, is just bleat and puke out Lynne’s own beliefs about Britney. In the way only a seasoned malignant narcissistic mother knows how to manipulate others to view the one person who could destroy her house of lies.
It's interesting that Baihly states here that Britney is not controlled but playing people. So, she can play people in private but can't do the same with the smear media in public and just lets them casually defame her?
And it's interesting because if she is genuinely not controlled and Lynne and Jansen have explained to her their messages never got through to her because of infiltration, then why is Britney still turning her back on them? Could it be because of their behaviour towards her and the fact all the abusers and the abuse enablers stick close to each other? Who could trust such a bunch of people?
The role of Lynne’s friends, in my opinion, is to have them serve her as her own personal flying monkeys, to help triangulate the narrative so she can garner the spotlight for herself. They might not even be bright enough to see this because their sense of loyalty will have been inflated with love-bombing with things they really want from her. Imagine being gifted some of Britney’s belongings, or the offer of meeting her one day, or meeting Lynne - but only if you have Lynne’s back. The lengths some people will go to defend such a person can be staggering.
By having flying monkeys who will go out of their way to infiltrate and gaslight people in the fanbase, it serves the purpose of inflating Lynne’s narcissistic sense of self-importance because it brings her into the centre of the conversation. How dare Britney be the eye of the global discourse which trashes Lynne’s reputation as a mother when somebody as amazing as Lynne can lie and manipulate and influence others that ‘Britney really needs her,’ and has the power to fracture some of the fanbase as they peddle this narrative.
Conclusional Thoughts
When all is said and done, if Britney really wanted to make up with her mother, family and friends should we support that? Of course we should. Under no circumstances should Britney be gaslit for that. But I think she’s been very lucid and clear as she could in her view about these people. Also, there seems to be no genuine family reunion, only what we are told in the papers as Britney didn't spend Christmas with her family.
But if a reconciliation does happen, I could never in a million years ever support the remaining Spears family. The Spears family will always be dark, sinister, generationally broken, controlling, abusive, small people who clearly take great enjoyment in their dehumanizing behaviour.
The contempt they have shown Britney is chilling and I fear they have burrowed deep and influenced Britney’s sons too. In some other audio clips that came out in 2022 they show Britney sad but accepting that her sons wouldn’t stay in contact with her unless she got help. Which just sounds like more generational abuse being heaped onto her as punishment in the form of the predictive Spears family programming. Britney basically stated unless they stop treating her like her family have done she doesn’t want to see them either. She was laying down healthy boundaries, painful as they are.
I hope some day the boys wake up and see that they too have been manipulated in their father and grandparents abuse of their mother. But when you’re raised in such a toxic soup of narcissistic abusers, it can be hard to see what is normal and what isn’t. Not all monsters wave around an axe and threaten you. Some of the worst monsters are family who enmesh themselves into the psyche of other family members and, with a smile on their face and pretending to show love and support, help influence the minds of the very people their victim loves because it is yet another layer of abuse.
Another thing that sticks out to me that Britney and Lynne's relationship is done is Lynne chasing her daughter to pay her $660,000 legal fees. Now they've supposedly made up is Lynne going to drop that request? Or is this why she's trying to crawl back into her daughter's life? The last I heard during the court hearings was Britney telling her mother where to go by rightfully refusing to sign the request off.
Now we are cognizant of a lot of the abuse levelled at Britney by her own mother, family and friends, I genuinely don't understand how some of the fanbase can shout they support Britney but also support her abusers in the same breath. If you take it to an even more sinister level in an effort to force a sharp stinging light of clarity on this, because some people struggle to see the obvious, could you support a victim of child sex abuse while also supporting the pedophile who abused them? I couldn’t. It’s that black and white for me.
Britney And Lynne Reconciled Once Before
This should make you think twice about rallying behind and supporting Lynne Spears. Lynne already had a chance to mend her ways with her daughter after Britney cut her out of her life after she believed Lynne drugged her and put her into forced rehab in Jan 2007.
In the summer of 2007 Sam Lutfi reached out to Lynne Spears in an attempt to reconcile her with Britney, despite it being in Britney's best interests to sever ties completely. I have always suspected Sam Lutfi was a team con operative working to push Britney into a conservatorship. Britney faced heightened media issues during his presence, as he facilitated constant paparazzi access to her home. Every aspect of his involvement suggests he was a manipulative enabler of abuse who pushed Britney towards her conservatorship.
The more Britney was abused by family, the media, and having her children taken away, and the more she was pushed to her last nerve, the more the hired paparazzi that Lutfi put into her vicinity could get their shots, so that TMZ could present to the world and justify what was coming; the conservatorship. The whole thing reeks of an entire orchestrated setup and many of the same people and platforms are all still in place today.
As a sidenote, Sam Lutfi has shown significant support for Sam Asghari, Bryan Spears, Jamie Lynne and Jodi Montgomery in recent years and at one point, just after Britney left the facility in 2019, Lutfi was begging Jamie Watson, Jamie Lynne’s husband, to let him manage Jamie Lynne stating in a DM, ‘If there is anything you ever need, never hesitate to reach out. I can do more for JL’s music career in one week than what’s been done in the past decade.’ This would indicate he has a strange on-off relationship with the Spears family, regardless of their fallouts, and clearly shows no loyalty towards Britney.
Below is his conversation that he said he had with Lynne to arrange the staged photos and a reconciliation with Britney, which appears to line up with what was going down at the time of the Summer of 2007:
Whatever Lutfi’s intentions were, and I’m sure they were not pure, he did help to reconcile Lynne and Britney because he believed Britney needed her abusive family around her. And look what happened. Lynne didn’t change her ways. She became the nightmare fuel which helped destroy Britney’s life, motherhood, personal life, friendships, and access to her finances, which wouldn’t have been possible if Lynne didn’t play along with putting Britney into a conservatorship for Lou Taylor and husband Jamie Spears.
And to this day she hasn’t shown one iota of remorse for her sickening actions towards her daughter. Why would I or others be expected to support such a vindictive woman? And why would Lynne be any different today? Abusers will always remain abusers. That’s how they function in the world - to hurt others is to make themselves feel better. Snakes shed their skin only to become bigger snakes. Lynne sits by doing nothing when her own child is ripped to pieces by the media dogs. She doesn’t care.
It’s clear Lynne would abuse Britney again if she was given another chance to slither into her daughter’s life. She can hide and enmesh herself behind as many flying monkeys as she wants. She has, just like Jamie, proven time and again, what a dangerous parent she is.
Concluding this piece, I leave you with an audio clip echoing Britney's rage against her family. Her life and self-expression were ruthlessly throttled, and numerous years were destroyed—years she can never reclaim. The architects of many of her traumas are none other than her own mother and father, who, despite orchestrating this havoc, exhibit not a shred of shame or remorse because, ultimately, they don’t care. They don’t know how to. They never supported her. That’s why we should be the ones to do so and give her the support and the space to be heard that she deserves.